Kendalikan Amarahmu dengan 4 Cara

Pertama, bila anda sedang marah maka hendaklah membaca “ta’awwudz” (memohon perlindungan) kepada Allah SWT, sebab pada hakikatnya perasaan marah yang tidak terkendali adalah dorongan setan. Nabi saw. bersabda, “Apabila salah seorang di antaramu marah maka katakanlah: ‘Aku berlindung kepada Allah’, maka marahnya akan menjadi reda”. (HR Abi Dunya).

Kedua, bila anda sedang marah maka berusahalah untuk diam atau tidak banyak bicara, sebagaimana sabda Nabi saw., “Apabila salah seorang di antara kamu marah maka diamlah.” (HR Ahmad).

Ketiga, bila anda sedang marah dalam keadaan berdiri maka duduklah, bila duduk masih marah maka berbaringlah. Hal tersebut ditegaskan oleh Nabi saw., “Marah itu dari setan, maka apabila salah seorang di antaramu marah dalam keadaan berdiri duduklah, dan apabila dalam keadaan duduk maka berbaringlah.” (HR Asy-Syaikhany).

Keempat, bila upaya ta’awwudz, diam, duduk, dan berbaring tidak mampu mengendalikan amarah Anda, maka upaya terakhir yang bisa dilakukan adalah dengan cara berwudu atau mandi. Sebagaimana sabda Nabi saw., “Sesungguhnya marah itu dari setan dan setan terbuat dari api. Dan api hanya bisa dipadamkan oleh air. Oleh karena itu, apabila seorang di antaramu marah maka berwudulah atau mandilah.” (HR Ibnu Asakir, Mauquf).

p/s: sabar.

Tutur kata cermin budi pekerti

"Yang kurik tu kundi
Yang merah itu saga
Yang baik itu budi
Yang indah itu bahasa"

"Tingkap papan kayu bersegi
Sampan sakat di Pulau Angsa
Indah tampan kerana budi
Tinggi darjat kerana bahasa"

Lihat. Betapa adat Melayu kita begitu menekankan tutur kata, kerana sesungguhnya tutur kata itu mencerminkan budi pekerti kita. Kalau cakap "hoi hoi lu apesal?" " gua nak blah dulu bro" "lu langsi lu mati" sesama kawan tapelah. Tu lainlah, tu ayat mesra mesra gitu. hehe. Normal lah kan. Tapi, kalau cakap dengan orang lain yang bukan kawan @ yang lagi tua @ orang asing macam tu, mau kena hempuk?!

Jum share artikel ni :)

Waspada sebelum bicara elak pemusuhan sesama umat

ALLAH menjadikan manusia amat istimewa dan berbeza berbanding makhluk-Nya yang lain. Keistimewaan manusia yang paling utama ialah Allah menganugerahkan mereka akal supaya manusia berfikir dan dihadiahkan buat sementara lidah untuk berbicara.

Ia bersebab dan dalam tuntutan bermuamalah dengan seluruh mahkluk di muka bumi ini, manusia mesti melakukannya dengan penuh rasa hormat dan beradab. Keupayaan berbicara adalah nikmat Allah begitu besar kepada manusia meskipun hanya dengan menggunakan dua tangan sebagai isyarat.

Firman Allah yang bermaksud: “Allah Yang Maha Pemurah serta melimpah rahmat-Nya, Dialah yang mengajarkan al-Quran, Dialah yang menciptakan manusia, Dialah yang membolehkan manusia memberi dan menerima pernyataan.” (Surah Ar-Rahman, ayat 1-4).

Justeru, nikmat kebolehan berbicara ini wajib dihargai, disyukuri dan digunakan sebaiknya mengikut landasan syarak. Islam menggariskan tatacara terbaik untuk menggunakan lidah yang sentiasa merungkaikan kalimah agar setiap butiran mendapat keredaan Allah.

Setiap perbicaraan keluar daripada seseorang menunjukkan apa yang ada dalam fikiran serta perangainya. Berbicara sesuatu yang perlu dan menghindari perbicaraan tidak berfaedah ibadah yang besar pahalanya.
Sabda Rasulullah SAW yang bermaksud: “Daripada kebaikan iman seseorang ialah meninggalkan apa yang tidak bermakna baginya.” (Hadis riwayat at-Tirmidzi)
Perkara paling utama ialah jangan berbicara mengenai sesuatu tidak berkaitan dengan diri kita kerana ia adalah bicara yang tidak perlu dan tidak akan menyelamatkan daripada dosa. Malah kita mungkin dipertanggungjawabkan dengan dosa dan sumpah palsu yang dibuat kerana keseronokan mengata sesuatu yang tidak pasti tanpa bukti menyokong.

Abu Darda menceritakan bahawa ia mendengar Rasulullah SAW bersabda yang maksudnya: “Sesungguhnya seorang pengutuk tidak boleh menjadi saksi dan memberi pertolongan (bagi saudaranya) pada Hari Kiamat.” (Hadis riwayat Muslim).

Selain itu, ada juga bicara yang disampaikan kepada orang lain mengenai sesuatu sedangkan masanya belum tiba untuk menyentuh hal itu. Ini perlu dielakkan kerana jika membabitkan bahan bukti mahkamah, boleh mengganggu perbicaraan mahkamah atau menimbulkan hal memalukan.

Apabila seseorang yang tidak berilmu perlu berdebat dalam berbicara, jangan berdebat dengan orang sabar atau bijaksana, kerana orang sedemikian tidak akan menghiraukan orang yang tidak tahu bersopan santun dalam berbicara.

Jangan berdebat dengan orang yang berperangai buruk atau terlalu banyak tohmah kerana mereka akan menyakitkan hati saja. Sewajarnya berdebatlah jika perlu dengan orang yang bijak dan santun, manakala kita juga perlu penuhkan dada dengan ilmu serta sopan.

Tutur kata dikeluarkan seseorang dapat mengukur sejauh mana kemahiran, pengetahuan, buah fikiran, sopan santun, budi pekerti, pemarah, kasar, sombong atau kerendahan hatinya. Oleh itu, sewajarnya setiap insan memelihara lidah dan berbicara menurut pertimbangan akal waras.

Sebagai manusia, kita mempunyai hak untuk menyuarakan pendapat. Walau bagaimanapun, ia mestilah tidak menimbulkan rasa marah atau menyinggung perasaan orang lain apatah lagi saudara sesama Islam.

Merenggangkan hubungan silaturahim, menimbulkan rasa marah, rasa benci, permusuhan dan jika keterlaluan mungkin menimbulkan kekacauan dan perbalahan.

Daripada Jundub bin Abdullah, Rasulullah SAW bersabda yang bermaksud: “Ada seorang lelaki berkata: Demi Allah, Allah tidak akan memberikan pengampunan kepada si Polan itu. Allah berfirman: Siapakah yang berani menyumpah atas nama-Ku bahawa Aku tidak akan mengampuni si Polan itu, sesungguhnya Aku telah mengampuni orang itu dan Aku menghapuskan pahala amalanmu yakni yang bersumpah tadi.” (Hadis riwayat Muslim).

Oleh itu, bagi mengelakkan berlaku sebarang perselisihan dan suasana tidak menyenangkan kita perlu berwaspada sebelum berkata.

Penulis ialah Pensyarah Kanan Fakulti Syariah dan Undang-Undang Universiti Sains Islam Malaysia, kini melanjutkan pelajaran di United Kingdom

*sumber : Berita Harian Online : Tutur kata cermin budi pekerti

p/s : abang dapat hadiah basikal sebab menang lari lari tadi! Pergh, birthday terbaik lah bang!
p/s/s : Everyday makan luar, sampai tatau nak makan ape dah. At least ada makanan kan? Syukurr
p/s/s/s : last night.

I need moreeeeeeeeeeeeeeee icecream + ROCKMELT

I know it is winter,but this is the the time when i need it the most! yummayhhh!! >.< i ate one tadi, but i need moreeeeeeeeeeeeeeeeeeeeeeeeeeeeeeeeeeeeeeeeeeee. ok. that;s enough of 'e'.


and semalam, anan ade passkan satu software. to install NEW BROWSER yang dipanggil nama, ROCKMELT! haa name pun gempak en en?" haaaa. so, dah install, and dah try, and so far it is AWESOME! :) sesuai untuk orang yang suke GOOGLE CHROME + FACEBOOK+ TWITTER+ SHARE macam macam. jom cekidaut!

oh. sila kelik pada gambar untuk lihat dengan lebih jelas dan jelas dan jelasss! ;)P

SO, amacam, COOL KAN?????

welcome to the new way of browsing. welcome to ROCKMELT

So,pada pandangan saya, this browser has pros and cons.

Pros

1. boleh bukak page lain banyak banyak but still updated with FB and Twitter
2. senang nak share terus whatever we want, tanpa nak copy+paste ape ape
3. kelajuan google chrome
4. nampak COOL (korang mesti setuju en!)

Cons

1. Ade pop-up. KACAU!
2. macam serabut sikit. and i'm not the type yang BUKAK je FB/Twitter 24/7
3. screen jadi kecik. sebab ade sidebar kiri kanan. tak puas! tehee
4. kadang kadang lembab sikit. tatau lah sebab tenet ke sebab rockmelt ni

Tapi,ikut korang lah camne kan. Ikut keselesaan masing masing :) ..but dok promote promote rockmelt, I'm still prefer to use my MOZILLA FIREFOX. heeeeeeeeee! Cheers!

p/s : WAH. tadi dah refill bekalan makanan study week yang berbaki 3 hari!
p/s/s : you are sweet in THAT your own way :)

bagaimana nak 'up'kan semangat study : versi saya

google lukisan pasal motivation, ni yang kuar. pandai pandai ah korang tafsir ye. hehehe

hari ini semangat nak belajar tu memang tahap ZERO DEFECT dah. pfft~
tak sedar tu exam tinggal 13hari lagi. ngaaaa :S
dahlah bangun lambat. almaklumlah tetiba plak tengahari tadi hujan, terus degil nak keluar dari selimut.tengok tengok laptop, malas nak bukak lecture.
tengok tengok notes, malas nak sentuh.
korang pernah tak jadi macam ni?
ah sungguh hipokrit lah kan korang kalau gile lah study 24/7 tak ade sekali pun rasa macam ah-aku-malas-dahlah-nak-belajar-lantaklah-hari-ni-aku-nak-buat-apapun!!

haaa nak mengaku tak? mengaku tak? ALAAA...MENGAKU JE LAH! TAKKAN LAH SAYE SORANG RASA MACAM NI! pfft~ *.*

setelah itu, saye came out with several ideas. ini cara yang saye buat hari ini lah. diulangi. INI CARA SAYA. haha.

1. call family
haaa. ini cara terbaikkk punyee! korang call family, call ayah/mak dulu. nak tanak, mesti call dorang dulu. sebab ape? sebab kalau korang call adik beradik korang, nanti korang mesti gaduh,merapu dulu. so, kesimpulannya, call ayah/mak dulu. tadi call bapak. inilah perbualan kami:

bapak : hello. along ek?
saya : aah. bapak buat ape?
bapak : baru nak tutup tuisyen. dah nak balik. sihat tak ni?
saya : sihat sihat. sikit je tinggal selsema semua.
bapak : ohhh. elok elok lah. sekarang study leave kan?
saya : aah. pak, along rasa malassssssssss gileeeeeeeeeeee nak belajar sekarang ni! *sambil main kaki*
bapak: ha? asal pulak malas? jangan macam tu long. try naikkan pointer untuk kali ini.
saya : sebab sekarang sejuk. tadi hujan. pastu dengan katil ni ha. hehehehehee
bapak : haish. jangan camtu. belajar elok elok. pastikan pointer tu naik!
saya : hehehe insyaAllahhh...

dengan mak pulak

mak : along, buat ape tu?
saya : hehe tengah malas belajarrrr laahhh!!
mak : oh. takpe takpe. relax relax lah dulu. tapi janganlah relax sangat.
saya : hehee tu lah. dengan hujan ni, sejuk sejuk. katil pun sedappp
mak : masa belajar, belajar. masa rehat, rehat. buat elok elok exam tu nanti
saya : hehehe okayy!

habis habis je bercakap dengan mak ayah, barulah up sikit semangat nak belajar. demi mereka yang punya harapan kat kite setinggi gunung! *nada pengetua sekolah*

2. skype dengan kawan kawan
tadi masa tengah meroyan gile down semangat nak study, terus buzz kawan yang online skype. terus skype dengan Shida and Fizerk kat UK. apelagi, borak sakan lah! pastu cakaplah dengan dorang, "shida, fizerk, malas gile nak study ni haaa!!". So, mereka sebagai manusia bergelar rakan patutlah kan memberi semangat dan nasihat. hahaha. adelah jugak dapat nasihat dari dorang, siap bukak Al-Quran lagi ha. hahaha! thanksss :)

3. renovate belog
semangat renovate belog tu datang sekali dalam setahun tahun kot. haaa. bila belog saye dah up sikit, semangat nak meneruskan penceritaan hari hari and nak update pasal belajar ape, up lah jugak secara tak langsung. tehaha!

4. kemas bilik
yang ni lagi satu. kalau bilik bersepah macam hape titanic pun tak secomot macam tu, ape lagi, silalah kemas kemas bilik tu ha (walaupun bilik tadelah sepah mana,(ayat cover) tapi i prefer to study in a clean and neat condition. baru selesa !). so, bila dah berseri bilik, semangat nak study up up and beyondd! hoho

5. tampal benda apa nak kena belajar
bukan tampal nota tau, tapi tampal apa yang kena revised and belajar! so bile tengok je kat list list tu, terus rasa kecut perut sebab macam banyak gile lagi kene revised! *tadi baru print 2 jadual. pfft*

6. makan secukupnya
korang teringin makan ape? makan! korang teringin nak masak ape? masak! bila semua tu korang dah dapat, korang pasti lebih semangat!

7. tampal gambar mak/bapak kat dinding atau laptop
supaya korang rasa bersalah setiap kali nak buat benda tak berfaedah, hehe

8. tulis besar besar reason kenapa korang nak berjaya!
contohnye macam shida cakap = supaya orang dengar ape kite cakap. or mestilah kite ade reason masing masing kenapa kan? so, tulis besar besar, and BEAR IN MIND SENTIASA!

9. give yourself a reward after studying
ini memang dari dulu lagi amalkan. contohnye, tengok movie ke, or main game ke, or chat dengan orlando bloom ke, pfft.

itulah serba sedikit cara caranya. haha! banyak lagi cara boleh kite buat, tapi setakat ni, ni je lah yang termampu nak taip. haha! okay okay. semoga kita sentiasa ada semangat nak study. name pun student kan. hohoho.

p/s : hari yang haru biru hagemaru. haha! hujan!
p/s/s : lapar la pulak tengah tengah malam ni. haish!

8 Irresistible Principles of Fun

These are 8 Irresistible Principles of Fun

1. GET FOCUSED! stop hiding who you really are
2. GET FOCUSED! start being intensely selfish
3. BE CREATIVE! stop following the rules
4. BE CREATIVE! start scaring yourself
5. USE YOUR WISDOM! stop taking it all so damn seriously
6. USE YOUR WISDOM! start getting rid of the crap
7. TAKE ACTION! stop being busy
8. TAKE ACTION! start something

what? where? when? who? how?
click here : http://www.eightprinciples.com/
:)

*thanks kucai for sharing this through twitter*

p/s : can't wait. tomorrow :)
p/s/s : nak amek mood balik...phew~
p/s/s/s : jgn lupe, doakan exam kami 8-13 june ni! ;)
p/s/s/s/s : doakan untuk mereka di Gaza, dan yang menuju ke Gaza.

3 Simple Stories That You Should Read, Think, and Ponder.

The Turtles

A turtle family decided to go on a picnic. The turtles, being naturally slow about things, took 7 months to prepare for their outing. Finally the turtle family left home looking for a suitable place. During the second month of their journey they found a place ideal for them at last!

For about six weeks they cleaned the area, unpacked the picnic basket, and completed the arrangements. Then they discovered they had forgotten the salt. A picnic without salt would be a disaster, they all agreed. After a lengthy discussion, the youngest turtle was chosen to retrieve the salt from home. Although he was the fastest of the slow moving turtles, the little turtle whined, cried, and wobbled in his shell. He agreed to go on one condition: that no one would eat until he returned. The family consented and the little turtle left.

Three months passed and the little turtle had not returned. Five months...six months... then on the seventh month of his absence, the oldest turtle could no longer contain his hunger. He announced that he was going to eat. At that point the little turtle suddenly popped out from behind a tree shouting, 'See! I knew you wouldn't wait. Now I am not going to go get the salt.'

[Some of us waste our time waiting for people to live up to our expectations. We are so concerned about what others are doing that we
do not do anything ourselves.]

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The Frogs

A farmer came into town and asked the owner of a restaurant if he could use a million frog legs. The restaurant owner was shocked and asked the man where he could get so many frog legs! The farmer replied, 'There is a pond near my house that is full of frogs - millions of them. They all croak all night long and they are about to make me crazy!' So the restaurant owner and the farmer made an agreement that the farmer would deliver frogs to the restaurant, five hundred at a time for the next several weeks.

The first week, the farmer returned to the restaurant looking rather sheepish, with two scrawny little frogs. The restaurant owner said, 'Well... where are all the frogs?' The farmer said, 'I was mistaken. There were only these two frogs in the pond. But they sure were making a lot of noise!'

[ Next time you hear somebody criticizing or making fun of you, remember, it's probably just a couple of noisy frogs. Also remember that problems always seem bigger in the dark. Have you ever laid in your bed at night worrying about things which seem almost overwhelming like a million frogs croaking? Chances are pretty good that when the morning comes, and you take a closer look, you'll wonder what all the fuss was about.]

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The Two Monks

Once upon a time an old monk and a young monk were traveling together. They came to the bank of a river and found the bridge damaged. They had to wade across the river. There was a pretty lady who was stuck at the damaged bridge and couldn't cross the river.

The old monk offered to carry her across the river on his back. The lady accepted. The young monk was shocked by the move of the old monk. 'How can big brother carry a lady when we are supposed to avoid all intimacy with females?' thought the young monk. But he kept quiet.. The old monk carried the lady across the river and the young monk followed unhappily. When they crossed the river, the old monk let the lady down and they parted ways with her. All along the way for several miles, the young monk was very unhappy with the act of the old monk.

He was making up all kinds of accusations about old monk in his head. This got him madder and madder. But he still kept quiet. And the old monk had no inclination to explain his situation.

Finally, at a rest point many hours later, the young monk could not stand it any further, he burst out angrily at the old monk. 'How can you claim to be a devout monk when you seize the first opportunity to touch a female, especially a very pretty one? All your teachings to me make you a big hypocrite.

The old monk looked surprised and said, 'I had put down the pretty lady at the river bank many hours ago, why are you still carrying her along?'

[This very old Chinese Zen story reflects the thinking of many people today. We encounter many unpleasant things in our life, they irritate us and they make us angry. Sometimes, they cause us a lot of hurt, sometimes they cause us to be bitter or jealous. But like the young monk, we are not willing to let them go. We keep carrying the baggage with us. We let them hurt us, make us angry, make us bitter and cause us agony. Why not let go?]

p/s : 9.17pm.still nothing.hmm
p/s/s : MV Rachel Corrie is on their way to Gaza. Please keep praying!
p/s/s/s : panas! and tadi having our group makan-makan. nyum2! :) Dr Vivian sangat comel ohkay.hahaha

Simplest Way to Make New Friends

Here's a quick update.

Someone asked me on formspring, what would you say the ideal way to make new friends? Well, here some. These only effective on LIVE conversation. Kalo dalam FB, Twitter, or Formspring tu lain la en? HAHA.

So, just click on the picture below..and enjoy making new friends! :)


oh, ye. anything on your mind, nak tanye ke, nak sibuk ke, nak tumpang lalu ke, sile lah melawat formspring saye ye. HAHA. kelik sini --> http://www.formspring.me/aunishbini

p/s : hoping there is tonight.
p/s/s : banyak la plak lalat hari ini
p/s/s/s : malam ni bulan penuh

Adakah Itu Cinta atau ... ?

Pagi semalam oleh sebab penangan nescafe yang beli semalam tu, grrr, susah gile nak tidur! dahlah kepala memang nak tidur gila-gila, mata memang dah layu habis daa, ambik Toddy, pusing-pusing kiri, pusing-pusing kanan, grrrr, memang tak dapat jugak :( Last-last tatau la macam mana, kul 2am lebih camtu baru dapat tidur kot. terbangun pukul 8.30am sebab alarm tepon asik nak memekikkk je, tutup (haha,macam biase lah), try sambung tidur, tak dapat! Dahla pening gila! PENING GILA ohkay?

Hmm, maybe sebab saya ni bukan jenis biasa minum nescafe, jadi memang teruk la sikit effect die.wah.hoho. bangun kol 10.30, makan breakfast (yes, saya telah menggoreng ayam yang dibeli semalam tuuu), terus after makan, pening lagi menyengat! grrr TERtidur.aiyark. bangun kol 1.30pm (-.-") okei sikit da kot.

Rupanya Aina pun sama gak. Die pun kene sakit kepala sebab minum nescafe. Ye la. Kitorang bukan jenis peminum tegar nescafe, sekali berlagak hebat nak minum nescafe malam-malam, hamek kau! haha.

Haaaaaa.tau sebenarnya korang nak baca yang bawah ni jek kan. Tapi tape. Layankan aje bebelan kat atas tu.hadoi.hakhak.

So, here's what i wanna share with you.
^_^

Adakah Itu Cinta atau ... ?

Adakah tapak tangan kita berpeluh, hati kita berdebar
kencang dan suara kita tersekat di dada?
Itu bukan Cinta, itu SUKA.

Adakah kita tidak dapat melepaskan pandangan mata
darinya?
Itu bukan Cinta, itu NAFSU.

Adakah kita menginginkannya kerana kita tahu ia ada di
sana?
Itu bukan Cinta, itu KESEPIAN.

Adakah kita mencintainya kerana itulah yang diinginkan
semua orang?
Itu bukan Cinta, itu KESETIAAN

Adakah kita tetap mengatakan kita menyintainya kerana
kita tidak ingin melukai hatinya?
Itu bukan Cinta, itu BELAS KASIHAN.

Adakah kita menjadi miliknya kerana pandangan matanya
membuat hati kita melompat?
Itu bukan Cinta, itu TERGILA-GILA.

Adakah kita memaafkan kesalahannya kerana kita
mengambil berat tentangnya?
Itu bukan Cinta, itu PERSAHABATAN.

Adakah kita mengatakan padanya bahawa setiap hari
hanya dia yang kita fikirkan?
Itu bukan Cinta, itu DUSTA.

Adakah kita rela memberikan semua perkara yang kita
senangi untuk kepentingan dirinya?
Itu bukan Cinta, itu KEMURAHAN HATI.

Tetapi…

Adakah kita tetap bertahan kerana campuran antara
sakit dan gembira yang membutakan dan tak terfahami
… menarik kita mendekati dan tetap bersamanya?
ITULAH CINTA.

Apakah kita menerima kesalahannya kerana itu bahagian
dirinya dan siapa dirinya?
Jika demikian, ITULAH CINTA.

Adakah kita tertarik dengan orang lain tapi setia
dengannya tanpa penyesalan?
Jika demikian, ITULAH CINTA.

Adakah kita menangis kerana kesakitannya walaupun saat
itu dia kuat?
ITULAH CINTA.

Adakah hati kita sakit dan hancur ketika dia bersedih?
ITULAH CINTA.

Adakah hati kita gembira ketika dia berbahagia?
ITULAH CINTA.

Adakah matanya melihat hati kita dan menyentuh jiwa
kita begitu mendalam sehingga menusuk?
Yang demikian, itulah namanya CINTA
:)


yang pasti, padaNya itu tetap yang hakiki
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Opss! Belum habis lagi.
Ni la menu dinner kitorang malam ni!

Ikan Singgang
Sambal Belacan
dan Sayur Goreng Su'un
(psssttt, su'un dari Malaysia tuuu hee~)

:)

p/s : yes, it is, insyaAllah. :)
p/s/s : camne nak habiskan nescafe tu ek? hm.
p/s/s/s : "keep it on track, Auni!" "Oh.Ok"

60 Things A Girl/Lady/Woman Wants But Wont Ask For.

Mase tengah online facebook (macam biase, rutin harian) haha, terjumpa satu group ni. just nak share la kan. This group is called ...


"60 THINGS A GIRL/LADY/WOMAN WANTS BUT WONT ASK FOR!! "

1. Touch her waist.
2. Actually talk to her.
3. Share secrets with her.
4. Give her 1 of your sweatshirts
5. Kiss her slowly.

Are you remembering this?

6. Hug her.
7. Hold her.
8. Laugh with her.
9. Invite her everywhere.
10. Hangout with her and your friends together.

KEEP READING

11. Smile with her.
12. Take pictures with her.
13. Pull her onto your lap.
14. When she says she loves you more, deny it. Fight back.
15. When her friends say i love her more than you, deny it. fight back and hug her tight so she can't get to her friends. it makes her feel loved.

Are you thinking of someone?

16. Always hug her and say hi whenever you see her.
17. Kiss her unexpectedly.
18. Hug her from behind around the waist.
19. Tell her she's beautiful.
20. Tell her the way you feel about her.

One last thing you need to do to show her you actually do mean it.

21. Open doors for her, walk her to her car (if any)- it makes her feel protected, plus it never hurts to act like a gentleman.
22. Tell her she's your everything - ONLY if you mean it.
23. If it seems like there is something wrong, ask her- if she denies something being wrong, it means SHE DOESN'T WANT TO TALK ABOUT IT- so just hug her.
24. Make her feel loved.
25. Kiss her in front of OTHER girls you know

WE MIGHT DENY IT BUT WE ACTUALLY LIKE IT AND KINDA WANT YOU TO TICKLE US

26. DON'T lie to her
27. DON'T cheat on her!
28. Take her ANYWHERE she wants

29. Text message or call her in the morning and tell her have a good day at work {or school}, and how much you MISS her.
30. Be there for her when ever she needs you, & even when she doesn't need you, just be there so she'll know that she can ALWAYS count on you.

ARE YOU STILL READING THIS? YOU BETTER BECAUSE, IT'S IMPORTANT

31. Hold her close when she's cold so she can hold YOU too.
32. When you are ALONE hold her close and kiss her.
33. Kiss her on the CHEEK: (it will give her the hint that you want to kiss her).
34. While in the movies, put your arm around her and then she will automatically put her head on your shoulder, then lean in and tilt her chin up and kiss her LIGHTLY.
35. Dont EVER tell her to leave even jokingly or act like you're mad. If shes upset, comfort her.

REMEMBER ALL THESE THINGS WHEN YOU ARE WITH HER NEXT


36. When people DISS her, stand up for her.
37. Look deep into her EYES and tell her you love her.
38. Lay down under the STARS and put her head on your chest so you can cuddle.
39. When walking next to each other grab her HAND.
40. When you hug her HOLD her in your arms as long as possible

MAKE SURE SHE KNOWS SHES LOVED

41. Call or text her EVERY night to wish her SWEET DREAMS
42. COMFORT her when she cries and wipe away her tears.
43. Take her for LONG walks at night.
44. ALWAYS remind her how much you love her.
45. Sit on top of her and tell her how much u love her and then bend down to her face and kiss her while sitting on her.
46. Rub her back--feels good
47. Give her your coat if she's cold--thats always cute
48. Write letters on her back with your finger--feels good ;D
49. Let her sit on your lap
50. DON'T poke her hard...but if you want to mess around just do it lightly.
51. HOLD her HAND in PUBLIC.
52. Even if she looks BAD one day tell her she's BEAUTIFUL
53. Keep conversations flowing...talk about anything usually they just go along with it.
54. If their hair is in their face move it out of her face and then kiss her passionatley and gently.
55. Surprisingly sneek up on her and hug her from behind--loves it.
56. Kiss her in the rain.
57. Pick her up like in The Notebook and kiss her.
58. Slow dance with no music
59. Don't ignore her or be nerveous around her--everything is going to be okay.
60. Love her, kiss her, hold her, and you'll be good to go. ;D

awwwwww--so sweet :) heeee~

OH-anda!!
dah ade group latest kat facebook
makesure join! =)P

nah, kelik bawah ni, kat name group ni lee.ngehe
eeeeee! tengah elok-elok webcam kat skype , tibe-tibe, CALL DROPPED? grrrr!

*tadek keje tol*

p/s : almost 12hours...
p/s/s : malasnye nak gi kelas pharma esok.grrr
p/s/s/s : panassss! nyamukkk! waa! :(

10 Ways on How to Live Your Life With No Regrets, insyaAllah =)

Semua orang pernah buat kesilapan suatu masa dulu, and yes, it is something "regrettable*. Tapi, cuba fikir. The fact that we are now able to look back and realize that a mistake or mis-step occurred means we have learned a valuable lesson. Some of our choices may have landed us in unpleasant circumstances, but experiencing these things certainly build our current character. Mistakes tu sume are stepping stones to an evolving life. Tak perlu la kite terus terperuk dalam penyesalan tak sudah-keep your chin up bebeh! (ewah-eh eh. haha)

So, here some ways on how to live your life with no regrets. OK. Just to make it clear. Doesn't mean that if ikut benda ni sebijik-sebijik terus dapat, TAK! Jangan serang Auni pulak. haha :) just that here's a few guides for us to have a great life ahead ^_^ Will show you the path, walk down it, just follow your heart :)

Here's HOW :

1. Mengaku kesalahan diri
Memang senang nak salahkan orang lain, pointing fingers at someone else and kate "Der, sebab lu la wa jadi macam ni!!" Pergh. Siap kening di ape orang kate, dirapatkan? ha.. dahi siap kerut-kerut pulak. Hoho. But, by taking responsibility and mengaku yang bende ni memang salah kite, it actually bring us to current reality, and this is the first step to moving past regrets, and of course- mase depan yang lebih cerah! :)

2. Make amends
Maksudnye cam you kene try to compensate bende tu. Of course- forgive yourself. Nobody is perfect. Kite semua buat salah. Continuely berating yourself for past actions is self-defeating. If nampak de seekor kucing tengah sakit,baring, would you kick it? Tak kan? Same je. jangan terukkan lagi keadaan you yang da teruk. Forgive yourself. Susah memang susah, but this step is really REALLY important one. Try. Yang lainnya, kite serah pada DIA.

3. Buat-buat-and-buat LAGI!
Pernah dengar second chance?? kite semua actually got second chance everyday! when we wake up in another day, there's where we got another chance :) Sometimes, feelings of regret arise not from our past actions, but from our non-actions. Pernah tak rasa regret gila bila OMAIGOD, masa aku pergi Sipadan tu dulu, aku tak try snorkelling! menyesalnyee! or dak-dak kat egypt ni, silelah jangan lupa untuk snorkel kalo gi DAHAB, rugi woh tak try ngehee~ It may be too late to reverse those decisions, but you still have options. New opportunities are available around every corner if you just open your heart and follow your dreams...

4. Be grateful
Bende paling VALUABLE yang kite belajar lam hidup kite ni is often come from the mistakes we make. Tu kene ingat :) Experience is always be the best teacher.

5. Jangan ulang kesalahan yang same! grr~
lBe careful la ek. Ni kalo da sedar kesalahan ni, and tanpa disedari, sebab careless, terulang kesalahan yang sama, I berani taruh, konpem korang lagi menyesal. Opportunity didnt come often. Sekali datang, grab! hold on it! Wat betul-betul.

6. Tengok dalam-dalam
Nilaikan balik the direction of your life is taking. Become aware of your future goals and desires. Set kan matlamat yang jelas. This will clear your life progresses. And yes-believe in yourself. Ni keypoint die! :)

7. Live in the moment
Cube try test fahamkan bende ni. Yesterday is the history. Tomorrow is mystery. But, today is a gift. That's why we called it present :)

8. Love, appreciate people who loves you.
Jangan dah tade baru nak menyesal itu ini. Dah tade baru nak appreciate kehadiran die dalam hidup kite. Love them, as today is the last day you have with him/her.

9. Do it!
Why delay? Kalau bukan sekarang, bile lagi? For example, you nak masuk pertandingan nyanyi-nyanyi, contohnye laa. you rase nervous, rasa nervous tu plak macam masa anda kecik-kecik dulu, anda main-main dalam troley masa mak pegi supermarket, then tiba-tiba tengok, mak dah tade. sekali tengok mak kat lane lain. Grr~ But then, if you tak overcome nervous tu sekarang, then bile lagi?? next time? and are you sure you still have THAT NEXT TIME?

10. Of course- buat baik selagi masih ada masa untuk berbuat baik, insyaAllah :)
Tangan memberi lebih baik dari yang menerima.

So, that's it I guess. It's NOW or NEVER. Live life with no regrets memang idaman hati pengarang jantung semua orang. But tak sume ade keberanian nak buat. TAPI, I know you are brave enough! Sebab you dak amik first action to have a life with no regrets by reading this =) Kenapa? Because you have give yourself a chance. A chance to lead a life with no regrets insyaAllah ^_^

Oh yeah. Please do watch this video, just click here. Her name is Janey Lautner, 80 years old woman, get into audition for Britain Got Talent. From die lah i got inspiration to write this post :) And i know, she will have no regrets living her life....

And now, it's our call!
^_^

p/s : nasib baik jumpe due-due tu :) thanksss! ^_^
p/s/s : saye benci call dropped skype! (rase nak buat jek group baru lam facebook ni..hehe)
p/s/s/s : ^___^

...... it would be worth it.

p/s : setuju!

p/s/s : dont hold on something that would stop you being you.

p/s/s/s : 2.32 am. and still awake. padah tidur 6 jam siang tadi.grrr~ BOSAN!

Nak Tau Rahsia Bunga?

Actually, setiap bunge ada meaning die.
Since egypt is now having spring season, meh kite tengok bunga-bunga.
kalo rajin, gi carik :)
So, tanpa membuang masa dengan menulis intro panjang-panjang
JOM tengok the 10 Most Romantic Flowers
*haa yang nak bagi kat sesape, ley ar rujuk-rujuk ek :) *

1. IRIS

Primary Meanings: Faith, Hope, Wisdom, Courage, Admiration
Nota Kaki Saya : ni bunge ape ni? lagu Awie Iris penahla dengar.takpun iris kat mate..


2. SUNFLOWER

Primary Meanings: Adoration, Loyalty, Longevity
Nota Kaki Saya : Dulu kan, suka makan kuaci sambil tengok AF :)P


3. WILDFLOWER

Primary Meanings: Whimsical, spontaneous, and thoughtful
Nota Kaki Saya : Suka tengok bunga ni dipetik fresh2, pastu letak dalam basket.

4. LILAC

Primary Meanings: Youthful, Innocence
Nota Kaki Saya : Comelnya bunge ni!! Asal tak penah nampak?


5. CARNATION

Primary Meanings: Fascination, Distinction. Love
Nota Kaki Saya : Laa..name bunga ni carnation ke? Selalu just tanya " Ya Ammu, dih bikam?" dalam BM --> "Pakcik, ni bape ek harga die?"

6. ORCHIDS

Primary Meanings: Love, beauty, luxury, strength
Nota Kaki Saya : Mak suka bunga orkid :)

7. LILY

Primary Meanings: Friendship, Devotion
Nota Kaki Saya : Oh..ni ke ghupe si lily..hoho

8. TULIPS

Primary Meanings: Perfect love
Nota Kaki Saya : Oh sangat suka kalau ada beberapa tulip yang lain-lain kaler, and tie them with a big ribbon..cute! :)

9. DAISY

Primary Meanings: Innocence, Purity, Cheerfulness
Nota Kaki Saya : Oh, i have a pic with daisies! sangat ciut sungguh ok bunge-bunge tu sume! :)



10. ROSE

Primary Meanings: Love, Romance
Nota Kaki Saya : perempuan selalu dikaitkan ngan mawar. and dont forget, it's BERDURI! watchout! ^_^
*segenih je sekuntum kat kedai bunge area Blok C tu*

p/s : sangat tade keje nak post pasal bunge budak ni tau. HAHA
p/s/s : ampun azza. ampun feeza
p/s/s/s : what we need is TALK. just talk.
p/s/s/s/s : grrr..12 hari lagi nak midsem..
p/s/s/s/s/s : sumber : 10 Most Romantic Flowers For Girls <--click here

How to Find 'Chemistry' Through Eyes

p/s : Dr Adel Bondok tu professor neuroanatomy kitorang.die yang cakap macam ni masa lecture tadi. so,kire cam from medical opinion la kan.Betul tau. Die terangkan tadi kenapa and macam mane.. huhu. cube korang buat. berjaya nanti, bitau!
p/s/s : cakap pasal mata, teringat gamba Sharba ni which is the most famous cover of National Geographic Mag.
p/s/s/s : nanti nak try la. kene banyak main mate la pasni :P
p/s/s/s/s : honesty. that's it.
p/s/s/s/s/s : now, u can ask me anything here! <--click laa.

Broken Hearted? Got Some Ways to Heal It.

Hati terluka? Sakitkan? Post ini telah disuggestkan oleh seorang kawan. Dia kata, "Auni, ko buat lah tips-tips untuk mengubat hati". HOHO. Walaupun takde lah muka dia serius mana pun nak suruh buat sampai melutut ke ape kan, but terpikir gak, pe salahnya kan? lagipun, mane tau ar kan kot kot berguna untuk 'dia' dan mungkin sesiapa sahaja satu hari nanti. Maklumlah, dunia ni berubah, esok tidak akan sama dengan hari ini.*pening kepala lah pulak kena hujan tadi.*.

Banyak benda boleh menyebabkan hati kite terluka.Paling selalu kite dengar is break up. Tak kisahlah if you guys baru dating few months, or perhaps a long term relationship ke, or maybe a married couple, but breaking up aint that easy. ok, break up memang la senang, just say that 'magic' word, then phewshhh! everything's off. But trust me, sape cakap breaking up tu senang? It's really hurting..freakin' damn hard. Hoi, ingat senang-senang ke after berapa lama bersama nak buang segala bagai memori-memori bla bla bla? (tak pasal-pasal emo)

Ataupun antara sebab lain mungkin kematian one of family member ke, or maybe kene buang kerja, or maybe terasa dengan kawan-kawan ke, ataupun sakit hati sebab dah lama gila aim kasut tu, tengok-tengok, dah ada orang lain sambar dulu! Punye lah kita tabung duit nak beli, time sale, die grab dulu. CIS! Haha. Ataupun mungkin melihat budak kecik makan aiskrim yang gile banyak scoop die ketika cuaca panas dan di dalam poket korang hanya ada RM 0.50 yang mana hanya layak membeli icecream malaysia tu je. hoho. Ataupun mungkin ada yang berharap gila kat something,tiba-tiba you found out, that thing you memang takkan dapat.hum..

Just something to share. Tak cakap benda ni after korang buat sume, TADAAAA! dah elok dah, Tak. Tak. The power of healing is in yourself, these things only to help you, to help you make your first move, then bile dah dapat the steps, just dance. Follow your heart. The most important thing is to Trust Yourself.

Are you ready? Good. Tell me your name, speak it out loud. NOW! Good. Very good. Now, at least you know yourself right? You, ______________, c'mon! lets us begin!!

1. Try to understand why you are upset. Understand that everything happens for a reason. Apa yang menyebabkan you rase down? Ape yang menyebabkan you rasa lemah? Rasa macam nak masuk bilik, tutup pintu, masuk dalam selimut and off handphone? Kenal pasti.

2. Don't think about whose fault it was - at one time or another, everyone makes mistakes. Jangan risau. Tade manusia yang perfect. Manusia takkan lari dari berbuat kesalahan. Tengok diri kita, kita pun ada buat kesalahan jugak

3. Do something quiet and relaxing to help you feel better. Maybe you want to take a hot bath, or meditate, or read a book. That's fine. Or kalau Auni, Auni gi kedai depan rumah ni, beli coklat Cadbury Hazelnut and icecream one box. Makan gilaaaa gilaaaaaaaaaa sampai tak larat nak masuk dah.

4. In an hour, or two, or whenever you're ready, start thinking about whether you are ready to accept the other person's feelings. It's ok, just take your time. But dont hold on to long my dear, this life have many beautiful things awaits you

5. If you are, go ahead, call them, write them a note, or whatever you need to do.
Maybe you want to talk face-to-face. They may not be willing to see you, or talk to you, but you should make an effort. Even if they turn you down, you feel better that you tried, and maybe they'll recognize that you made an effort. InsyaAllah.

6. Move on. When you feel you are ready to open your heart again, find someone else to be with. Buat ape stuck lama2? Benda tu takkan datang balik. what is past, is past. Banyak lagi yang lagi baik! Live your life. Pernah dengar quote ni tak? When one door closes, another opens; but we often look so long and so regretfully upon the closed door thaat we do not see the one which has opened for us. SO, BUKAK MATA! You have another door open, peeps!

7. Smile! Seriously, smiling makes you feel better and if you gather a few good, close friends and have a laugh together, you'll remember how good life was without him/her and that you're okay really. Laughter is the best medicine (betul ke idiom ni? hoho). Yeah... it reminds you how great your life is. Remember, you are not going to live forever, Cheerish the moment.

8. Find something to distract you. OK. suke travel? suke masak? suka karaoke? suka main bola? suka shopping? Then, GO OUT THERE guys! Ape ni? OK. I give you one week to mourn, after that, hey, remember what i said, you still have your own your life. Mana diri you sebenar selama ni pergi???? Have fun! Just do it!

9. Replace the picture of your former dearest, with a picture of yourself. Every day when you walk by that picture, say sorry out loud. Yes, you are apologizing to yourself for having gone that far around the bend for someone who didn't know your value and worth, and who doesn't matter anymore. And you sepatutnya deserve lagi baik dari itu!

10. Let time heal. It has been one month now. Go to someplace where you used to go or be near your so-called one-true love and go there with a friend (bukan gi sorang-sorang ok-this is important). It may hurts you, but by hurting yourself, then you'll know that you you still alive, as you still can feel the pain. And, walla! Here you go. Re-create a new memory there, yes, WITHOUT HER/HIM. Time will heal, with real action :)

11. Practice being honest to yourself every day. Jangan tipu diri sendiri. You can fool your family or your friends, but you cant fool yourself, let it all out. You sedih, cry out loud. Then one day, you akan realise, apa aku buat ni? And you akan found out that you will laugh to yourself sebab benda-benda macam ni. hehe

12. Read a book every night before you go to sleep. You might never have read books, but nothing moves you outside of yourself better than a book, not a movie, not a music video, read a book. InsyaAllah, will help you heal. or perhaps, masak? heeeee. masak extra ek? nanti nak sikit boleh? ;P

13. Speak to people. Speak to friends. Try out forums online. Knowing that thousands like you are going through the same pain helps a lot. Jangan pendam sorang-sorang, You boleh kene depression kot. Hey, ade ramai lagi kat luar sana macam awak. Ada yang lagi teruk. Ada yang tade rumah, ade yang bankrup. Tapi diorang tak mengalah, they fight. If they can survive, why you cant?

14. Have faith in HIM. Everything happen for a reason. DIA lagi tahu kenapa benda ni jadi. Ada hikmah in everything yang terjadi. Banyak-banyakkan doa, selawat, tawakal, minta dipulihkan hati kita. Luka luaran, bisa dirawat dengan ubatan, tapi luka dalaman, kena rawat dari dalam. InsyaAllah..

I know, cakap senang ar kan, but nak buat....memang susah. I know. But these might help to alleviate you a little bit, sometime kite takkan dapat apa yang kita nak. Tapi DIA bagi kita yang lagi baik. DIA takkan bagi kita dugaan kalau DIA tau kita tak dapat hadapi nya. HE knows your strength. It's time for you to use it. Trust yourself. ok? You still have people love you kat sekeliling you. KALAUPUN takde, you still have me. Sebagai manusia, aku sayang padamu (tiru ayat lakasaman sunan ke ape ni? hoho) You might be nobody to the world, but you might be a world to somebody. Good luck!

p/s : kat mana ye nak cari traveller's backpack kat egypt ni? anyone knows kedai yang ada?
p/s/s : februari. dua dah. alhamdulillah. insyaAllah .. :)
p/s/s/s : sejuk...rasa cam nak demam dah...hachoooo!!!! :'(

13 Gaya Agar Browser Anda Cun dan Hensem!

*PERHATIAN : Post ini adalah sebagai satu therapy selepas menjawab 200 soalan MCQ petang tadi, dan selepas mengepos ini ke blog, baru resume balik study.ye, saye gi study la jap lagi...*

Boring dengan browser yang kosong? Macam bawah ni?

HOHO. Apa kata kita upgrade sikit si browser ni supaya tampak lagi menawan.(macam ayat majalah Wanita je...) Tidaklah seakan bermuram durja sahaja rupanya. UHUK3.

Maybe ramai yang tau ape benda ni, tapi tape.
I NAK JUGAK BAWAK MASUK BLOG!!! <--protes hentak kaki.

Paling penting, anda perlu memastikan si browser yang hendak melalui proses grooming ini memakai lencana Mozilla Firefox. Internet Explorer, tu lain cerita. Dah? Adakah anda kipas-susah-mati mozilla? bagus2. JOM KITA MELINTAS! ergh. jom kita teruskan.

Ade dalam 41 626 pilihan yang anda boleh buat menurut yang dilaporkan kat lappy saye ni, pada pukul 8.39pm, 30 Jan 2010. Banyak kan? haaaaaa....^_^

Nah. Lihat sahaja gaya mereka. Saya bawakan khas 13 daripada mereka ke kaca laptop anda. Lihat,seakan sudah biasa berposing di hadapan kamera.ngehehe~

Oh, seperti biasa klik pada gambar untuk tumbesaran belipat kali kali kali ganda berganda.

Pertama : Summerwood...teringat lagu fireflies..heee~

yang ni, ade description sikit.heee~

Kedua : AAR (bukan aina alia rahim tetapi all american reject)

Ketiga : Avatar...ade lagi satu, tapi ni lagi nampak ke'avatar'an nye :)

Keempat : Lady Gaga..uyeay..bad romance.hoho

Kelima : New Moon!! owh..jangan kechiwa kerana tiada edward, tapi jacob ade! heeee :)

Keenam : Dinding-Off a.k.a Off Wall

Ketujuh : Pyaar Impossible - tu bahse hindi, melayu nye, cinta mustahil hoho. hindustan mane ntah..tapi suke munge-munge itu.heee~

Kelapan : Rainbow - aaaaaaaahhhhh...nak isekem paddlepop!

Kesembilan : Suki Tsuruga - sape minat katon? nah amek2! hohoho

Kesepuluh : Snowman - walaupun di sini tiada salji, dia boleh jadi pengubat hati...tsk tsk :(

Kesebelas : Stocking - tak tahu nak sidai mana stoking korang? meh2...sini boleh.

Keduabelas : california sunset atau name manje 'Dahab' sunset - arrrggghhhhhhhhhh!! Nak DAHAB!

dan...

Ketigabelas ini paling special, sebab saye gune yang ni lah sekarang. heeee. Mempersilakan, COOKIE MONSTER!!!

Kenapa saya suka?
OHEMJI! saye tertawan pada pandangannya yang memukau..AWWW! :)P

haha
sekian. itu sahaja dari saya. ZASSSSsss!

selamat tinggal browser muka-macam-bangun-pagi-mamai-pastu-tidur-balik-tarik-selimut
hai browser kau-sungguh-gumbira-menyebabkan-aku-cemburu!

oh, kalau nak tengok before this gaya ape yang saye pilih for browser, klik kat due menatang bawah ni.

tattoo = :) <---ataupun ---> (:=love

*di extract dari post-post yang lepas*


p/s : next paper - ESSAY on 1st February - doakan saye dan kengkawan sahabt handai saye ye?
p/s/s : kite perlu korbankan benda kecil untuk dapatkan yang besar
p/s/s/s : 8 sehari, alhamdulillah..insyaAllah :)
p/s/s/s/s : tawakal...Pak, Mak, Adik2, doakan along.