10 Ways on How to Live Your Life With No Regrets, insyaAllah =)

Semua orang pernah buat kesilapan suatu masa dulu, and yes, it is something "regrettable*. Tapi, cuba fikir. The fact that we are now able to look back and realize that a mistake or mis-step occurred means we have learned a valuable lesson. Some of our choices may have landed us in unpleasant circumstances, but experiencing these things certainly build our current character. Mistakes tu sume are stepping stones to an evolving life. Tak perlu la kite terus terperuk dalam penyesalan tak sudah-keep your chin up bebeh! (ewah-eh eh. haha)

So, here some ways on how to live your life with no regrets. OK. Just to make it clear. Doesn't mean that if ikut benda ni sebijik-sebijik terus dapat, TAK! Jangan serang Auni pulak. haha :) just that here's a few guides for us to have a great life ahead ^_^ Will show you the path, walk down it, just follow your heart :)

Here's HOW :

1. Mengaku kesalahan diri
Memang senang nak salahkan orang lain, pointing fingers at someone else and kate "Der, sebab lu la wa jadi macam ni!!" Pergh. Siap kening di ape orang kate, dirapatkan? ha.. dahi siap kerut-kerut pulak. Hoho. But, by taking responsibility and mengaku yang bende ni memang salah kite, it actually bring us to current reality, and this is the first step to moving past regrets, and of course- mase depan yang lebih cerah! :)

2. Make amends
Maksudnye cam you kene try to compensate bende tu. Of course- forgive yourself. Nobody is perfect. Kite semua buat salah. Continuely berating yourself for past actions is self-defeating. If nampak de seekor kucing tengah sakit,baring, would you kick it? Tak kan? Same je. jangan terukkan lagi keadaan you yang da teruk. Forgive yourself. Susah memang susah, but this step is really REALLY important one. Try. Yang lainnya, kite serah pada DIA.

3. Buat-buat-and-buat LAGI!
Pernah dengar second chance?? kite semua actually got second chance everyday! when we wake up in another day, there's where we got another chance :) Sometimes, feelings of regret arise not from our past actions, but from our non-actions. Pernah tak rasa regret gila bila OMAIGOD, masa aku pergi Sipadan tu dulu, aku tak try snorkelling! menyesalnyee! or dak-dak kat egypt ni, silelah jangan lupa untuk snorkel kalo gi DAHAB, rugi woh tak try ngehee~ It may be too late to reverse those decisions, but you still have options. New opportunities are available around every corner if you just open your heart and follow your dreams...

4. Be grateful
Bende paling VALUABLE yang kite belajar lam hidup kite ni is often come from the mistakes we make. Tu kene ingat :) Experience is always be the best teacher.

5. Jangan ulang kesalahan yang same! grr~
lBe careful la ek. Ni kalo da sedar kesalahan ni, and tanpa disedari, sebab careless, terulang kesalahan yang sama, I berani taruh, konpem korang lagi menyesal. Opportunity didnt come often. Sekali datang, grab! hold on it! Wat betul-betul.

6. Tengok dalam-dalam
Nilaikan balik the direction of your life is taking. Become aware of your future goals and desires. Set kan matlamat yang jelas. This will clear your life progresses. And yes-believe in yourself. Ni keypoint die! :)

7. Live in the moment
Cube try test fahamkan bende ni. Yesterday is the history. Tomorrow is mystery. But, today is a gift. That's why we called it present :)

8. Love, appreciate people who loves you.
Jangan dah tade baru nak menyesal itu ini. Dah tade baru nak appreciate kehadiran die dalam hidup kite. Love them, as today is the last day you have with him/her.

9. Do it!
Why delay? Kalau bukan sekarang, bile lagi? For example, you nak masuk pertandingan nyanyi-nyanyi, contohnye laa. you rase nervous, rasa nervous tu plak macam masa anda kecik-kecik dulu, anda main-main dalam troley masa mak pegi supermarket, then tiba-tiba tengok, mak dah tade. sekali tengok mak kat lane lain. Grr~ But then, if you tak overcome nervous tu sekarang, then bile lagi?? next time? and are you sure you still have THAT NEXT TIME?

10. Of course- buat baik selagi masih ada masa untuk berbuat baik, insyaAllah :)
Tangan memberi lebih baik dari yang menerima.

So, that's it I guess. It's NOW or NEVER. Live life with no regrets memang idaman hati pengarang jantung semua orang. But tak sume ade keberanian nak buat. TAPI, I know you are brave enough! Sebab you dak amik first action to have a life with no regrets by reading this =) Kenapa? Because you have give yourself a chance. A chance to lead a life with no regrets insyaAllah ^_^

Oh yeah. Please do watch this video, just click here. Her name is Janey Lautner, 80 years old woman, get into audition for Britain Got Talent. From die lah i got inspiration to write this post :) And i know, she will have no regrets living her life....

And now, it's our call!
^_^

p/s : nasib baik jumpe due-due tu :) thanksss! ^_^
p/s/s : saye benci call dropped skype! (rase nak buat jek group baru lam facebook ni..hehe)
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